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i got some bad news

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by N5638J, Jul 7, 2010.

  1. N5638J

    N5638J Guest

    We lost the baby.:cry we are so heart broken. I just don't know what to say. Just last week we found out that Amanda was 6weeks along and now the baby is gone.
  2. TeeCee

    TeeCee MajorGeek

    Sorry to hear that, NJ, my condolences.... :cry
  3. LauraR

    LauraR MajorGeeks Super-Duper Administrator Staff Member

    Very sorry to hear that NJ. :(
  4. silas

    silas MajorGeek

    Aw thats awful :( I am sorry for the lost that you and her have and will go through. Also sometimes things happen for a reason. Who knows next time triplets.:)
  5. augiedoggie

    augiedoggie The Canadian Loon - LocoAugie (R.I.P. 2012)

    I'm so sorry to hear that man. :(
  6. dyamond

    dyamond Imelda Marcos of Majorgeeks

    So sorry for you, bro. :(
  7. joey off the street

    joey off the street Lounge Lizard No.1

    Shit. Sorry to hear that, NJ. Nothing can put this kind of loss in perspective. I'm feeling it for you, man. I'm gutted for yous. Condolences to you both.
  8. N5638J

    N5638J Guest

    Its like was it all a dream? It seemed to go by so fast.
  9. sikvik

    sikvik Corporal Karma

    Sorry to hear this NJ :(
  10. Phantom

    Phantom Brigadier Britches

    So sorry to hear that, N.J:( My wife lost a child at 7-8 weeks on two occasions, so I can definitely relate. Condolences to you and Amanda.
    ~ On a lighter note maybe you'll be like us and have a healthy baby the second time around.;)
  11. mcadam

    mcadam Major Amnesia

    Sorry to hear that mate, check your facebook.
  12. hrlow2

    hrlow2 MajorGeek

    Always sad to hear about something like this.
    My condolences go out to you and your family.
  13. N5638J

    N5638J Guest

    Thank you everyone for your support.
  14. darlene1029

    darlene1029 A Grand Lady- R.I.P. 06/06/2012

    So very sorry for you both, those first few weeks are the worse, it will happen again with good results.
  15. legalsuit

    legalsuit MajorGeek

    Sorry to see this post NJ...here's wishing you both every future happiness.


  16. sibeer

    sibeer MajorGeek

    Tough news NJ. Sometimes things just go bad, and you seem to get your share. It'll work out next time for you.
  17. Spad

    Spad MajorGeek

    Sorry to hear that. Not long after my first wife and I married she became pregnant. It was in the third month she miscarried.

    It happens, and while it does seem to happen a lot with a first pregnancy it's never easy to deal with. We went on to have two healthy boys, though, so look to the future.

    Best wishes for you and your lady.
  18. Gensuknives

    Gensuknives Grand pooty-meister

    Hang in there. I had many many patients who aborted for no apparent reason, and it is very difficult to determine. Usually it is a minor thing that time takes care of. In one respect, it is nature's way of taking care of a gestation that was not perfect or going well. I used to tell them that it is much less traumatic for you to lose a pregnancy early rather than at 37 or 38 weeks with a stillborn.
    Also, in nearly every case, the patients were able to conceive after a short time and carry a normal pregnancy to its usual happy conclusion.

    Main thing: try to convince your wife that there was probably nothing she could have done to produce a different outcome. Don't let her get down in the dumps over it. Next time it should go fine.

    Any time a pregnancy occurs, a miscarriage is possible for any number of reasons. Most you can't do anything to prevent. Diet, vitamins, rest, exercise, proper lifestyle changes (cigarettes, booze, drugs) all play a role. Encourage her that it WILL turn out to be a good result eventually.

    Thoughts and prayers are with you, man.
  19. hrlow2

    hrlow2 MajorGeek

    I would have a sister a year older than me if she hadn't been stillborn.
    Not quite the same thing, but if my parents had given up, I wouldn't be here today.
    Neither would my 2 younger brothers and younger sister.
  20. Nedlamar

    Nedlamar MajorGeek

    Really feel for you NJ, myself and my good lady have been through this 7 times in 5 years, 1 of which went to 11 weeks, we had even decided on names (boy or girl). We've now given up.
    It is rough, but it's just another curve ball that life throws at you and the pain will subside in time. Best wishes to you and your partener.

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