I hate my life

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by LI_Geek_95, Dec 4, 2008.

  1. LI_Geek_95

    LI_Geek_95 Post-and-Run Geek

    There are these two girls. I was best friends with them. But then I screwed up, and now they are mad at me. They said it is going to take a while for them to forgive me. My life is nothing without them. :cry
     
  2. KingSteve

    KingSteve MajorGeek

    Life is too short to worry about it. Theyll get over it. If they dont, they are friends that really arent worth having. Your life is your own, bro. Friends do make life more interesting and enjoyable, but to say your life is nothing without these two girls is a little overkill.
     
  3. DavidGP

    DavidGP MajorGeeks Forum Administrator - Grand Pooh-Bah Staff Member

    Ah the perils of teenage life and girls! doesnt get any better Dawg as you get older :p

    As Steve mentions, if they are friend and if you messed up and do appologise to them if you where in the wrong, then if they are friends then they will forgive you if your sincere about it.

    But dont keep hounding* them (*oh bad bad pun ~ Sorry) as that will make it worse let them get over whatever happend in their own time.
     
  4. LI_Geek_95

    LI_Geek_95 Post-and-Run Geek

    These 2 girls meant pretty much everything to me. We do everything together. They were even going to be the first 2 people to ride the stripper with me. They said not to beg. I think I know how to get them back though. I am going to completely leave them alone for a whole week. Then they'll see how boring their lives are w\o me.:cry
     
  5. KingSteve

    KingSteve MajorGeek

    Im not sure i want to know what you mean by "ride the stripper".
     
  6. abz1nthe

    abz1nthe Command Sergeant Major

    ya if your trying to get with em then I would pick one, trying to balance two especially if there friends ='s trouble :-D

    First step would be of course to apologize and realize it will take time for them to get over whatever it is you did. Just play it slow and don't stress over it these things have a way of working themselves out, most the time./
     
  7. LI_Geek_95

    LI_Geek_95 Post-and-Run Geek

    i meant striper. they're not.... like that, to censor myself. my life went down the crapper! but, i have been chosen the sexiest person in the school and the best dancer!

    EDIT: btw, im not tryin to get with them. i just love being friends with them.
     
    Last edited: Dec 4, 2008
  8. abz1nthe

    abz1nthe Command Sergeant Major

    ahh ok striper sounds better lol Well you seem to have some positive things going on hopefully help counter balance some of the negative.

    Like I said give it time I am sure they don't plan on ditching ya as a friend they just need time to cool down.
     
  9. mcadam

    mcadam Major Amnesia

    Halo I read that as pounding them....*sigh*!

    Just forget about them and move on to the next. That's what teenage life is for, scoring as much as you can before having to settle down later on in life!
     
  10. LauraR

    LauraR MajorGeeks Super-Duper Administrator Staff Member

    lmao

    I love how all the boys are giving you girl advice. LOL

    How's that advice generally work for you guys? :-D


    Girls like to not talk to you when they are mad. The best thing you can do is let them be. They'll forget why they were mad soon enough (I always do. heh)
     
  11. KingSteve

    KingSteve MajorGeek

    i still dont know what ride the striper means...:confused
     
  12. KingSteve

    KingSteve MajorGeek

    ooooh your boat. i get it. i had to google striper.
     
  13. Kestrel13!

    Kestrel13! Super Malware Fighter - Major Dilemma Staff Member

    *pokes head round corner* and runs out again ...:-D
     
  14. mcadam

    mcadam Major Amnesia

    Typical woman :p
     
  15. LI_Geek_95

    LI_Geek_95 Post-and-Run Geek

    Text Update:
    Me: Cant we plz just start over
    Her: Its not that easy
    Me: Y isnt it that easy?
     
  16. Rikky

    Rikky Wile E. Coyote - One of a kind

    Forget about them both they ain't worth the hassle just go and buy a new pc game,the pc game won't judge you or be angry at you,it doesn't react to your tone of voice or get angry when shout at it,it just accepts you and lets you play with it :)

    Always worked for me:p

    I'm so lonely:cry
     
  17. TimW

    TimW MajorGeeks Administrator - Jedi Malware Expert Staff Member

    Hasn't worked......you still won't talk to me....:cry:cry
     
  18. LI_Geek_95

    LI_Geek_95 Post-and-Run Geek

    Lolz
    You can fix malware problems. Can you fix girl problems? ;)
     
  19. LauraR

    LauraR MajorGeeks Super-Duper Administrator Staff Member


    Step away from the phone.

    Seriously.

    I'm evil that way.:-D;)
     
  20. LI_Geek_95

    LI_Geek_95 Post-and-Run Geek

    Im getting closer.
    Me: I miss you. I wish we could be friends again
    Her:We are going to be friends again. But not for a whole
    Me: That makes it better knowing we are going to be friends again eventually
     
  21. TimW

    TimW MajorGeeks Administrator - Jedi Malware Expert Staff Member

    See Dawg....women are in charge, you just got to accept it and live your life ( and hope someday you get lucky...:) ).
     
  22. wildwolf220

    wildwolf220 Oracle of Doom

  23. mcadam

    mcadam Major Amnesia

    I don't understand, you come to the internet asking for advice but ignore it. A few people have told you to leave it yet you persist in contacting said person....
     
  24. Remoc

    Remoc Private E-2

    @ Dawg * Yawns * :crybaby
     
  25. LauraR

    LauraR MajorGeeks Super-Duper Administrator Staff Member

    lol...he's young. They get a lot of good advice they ignore.rolleyes
     
  26. mcadam

    mcadam Major Amnesia

    Unfortunately that's the youth of today.

    "I coming to the internet for advice but I'm going to ignore it and just do what I think's right"
     
  27. KingSteve

    KingSteve MajorGeek

    relax. hes a young dude. i found the advice ive gotten over the years for various things werent as good as living and learning, and building myself up from what ive leared on my own.
     
  28. Kestrel13!

    Kestrel13! Super Malware Fighter - Major Dilemma Staff Member

    roflmao 10 points for that reply I LOVE my PC
     
  29. KingSteve

    KingSteve MajorGeek

    :-D how did i miss this? funny stuff Rikky
     
  30. Paxton007

    Paxton007 MajorGeek

    I read a few of the posts here, and without making it to the end, I'd say this. I got myself to the point in my life where people mean things to me, I'm married, and happy.. If someone chooses to walk away, be it a relationship partner, or anyone else, asking them to come back is ultimately asking them to move against their will, or desire.. I don't mean this is a hostile fashion, but it's going to come back and bite you again if you have anything to do with them coming back other than on their own. I have always told people whom I was ending a relationship with that I was easy to talk to, and would be willing to work anything out, but once you leave me, that's it, I don't care if you're on the first step on the porch and decide you were acting like a fool. I've never given anyone a second chance, but everyone's always known that about me.

    People have to be with other people because they want to, otherwise, it's not worth the trouble. Good luck though, they could come back, but you might as well live as though they won't.
     
  31. Kestrel13!

    Kestrel13! Super Malware Fighter - Major Dilemma Staff Member

    such words of wisdom, Paxton :)
     
  32. LauraR

    LauraR MajorGeeks Super-Duper Administrator Staff Member

    Very wise words....as an adult. ;) I have to say, I wouldn't put up with the immaturity of someone telling me they were going to leave (be it friend or spouse) if they were just doing it for attention or some other misguided reason...which is what kids do.

    Kids are immature and are socially inept. I can tell you, having two young girls, that that how girls deal with stuff. They are passive aggressive. Only with maturity do they actually get over that (if they are lucky...I actually know grown women who behave that way.rolleyes They aren't my friends as I prefer direct speech). I am trying to teach my kids that that is not an appropriate way to deal with fights and such.
     
  33. Paxton007

    Paxton007 MajorGeek


    Thank you, and a few extra commas... :-D my finger hits that button like it's life support.
     
  34. Phantom

    Phantom Brigadier Britches

    Most has already been said, so I won't add too much, except to say that everyone, (you, me, etc.), needs to be master of your own emotions. Meaning, that you cannot, or should not, be emotionally dependent on anyone else for happiness/pleasure. Same applies to hurts - People only have that power if you let them, which isn't easy at times, I'll admit.

    Just take it where it's coming from. A great pair of friends while it lasted, and will most probably be so again, provided you don't be too 'pushy' about it. As John Lennon used to say, "Let it be".;)

    So you can take this post for what it is meant to be - advice/p.o.v. from someone that's been around a while, or ignore it totally. The choice, and presumably consequences are yours.
     
  35. maran

    maran Private E-2

    The trick is to apologise in a way that allows them permission to still be angry with you.

    Of course you can’t overuse that kind of line but in a tight spot it will get you through.
     
  36. LI_Geek_95

    LI_Geek_95 Post-and-Run Geek

    Im not asking for advice. Just venting.
    Exactacly...
     
  37. mcadam

    mcadam Major Amnesia

    Sorry, but I've never understood where venting on an internet forum gets you.
     
  38. KingSteve

    KingSteve MajorGeek

    quoted for truth
     
  39. Kestrel13!

    Kestrel13! Super Malware Fighter - Major Dilemma Staff Member

    i depend on a bar of chocolate for my pleasure :drool
     
  40. LauraR

    LauraR MajorGeeks Super-Duper Administrator Staff Member

    LOL That always does help, doesn't it?
     
  41. LI_Geek_95

    LI_Geek_95 Post-and-Run Geek

    Its jealousy bcc i asked out someone in their crew. I have to wait until the 2nd chance period is over. That means that after you reject someone, you have till 8th period, 27 days later(if its a weekend, round up). So i have to wait till it blows over >:eek:
     
  42. Kestrel13!

    Kestrel13! Super Malware Fighter - Major Dilemma Staff Member

    can you say that in English? LOL
     
  43. Corporal Punishment

    Corporal Punishment Head of Software Shenanigans Staff Member

    Man things have changed since I was your age. My first stripper I had to ride solo.

    Dude - Upset women only understand 2 things: Chocolate and I'm sorry. Combine the two and your golden. The "I'm sorry" part has to put 100% of the blame on yourself - tears help, try squirting some lemon juice on your hand and rub your eyes when talking to them. The chocolate is easy - but get the good stuff, not a Hershey bar.


     
  44. Kestrel13!

    Kestrel13! Super Malware Fighter - Major Dilemma Staff Member

    i must be very upset Doc provided me with whole slabs of chocolate this week LOL
     
  45. darlene1029

    darlene1029 A Grand Lady- R.I.P. 06/06/2012

    My young friend, who laid down all these rules? Good Grief, next will be hazing in kindergarten.
    Are you sure it's not a practice run for young ladies learning how to manipulate the opposite sex?

    By the way listen to the gentleman from across the pond, he has to be knowledgeable, he's like 18.
     
  46. TimW

    TimW MajorGeeks Administrator - Jedi Malware Expert Staff Member

    Are we still whining about this? Life is too short....women too scarce....nap time comes but once a day....:-D

    WHere is my CAKE!!!
     
  47. LauraR

    LauraR MajorGeeks Super-Duper Administrator Staff Member


    Ditto! That's all the most ridiculous load of crap I've ever heard.

    roflmao

    I'm not upset, but I just might have to get upset if it gets me a slab of chocolate! heh
     
  48. Lev

    Lev MajorGeek

    roflmao

    Good grief:tired It's like reading the laws of the Old Testament! Put aside these rules and have meaningful genuine relationships with your friends before it's too late!
     
  49. Kestrel13!

    Kestrel13! Super Malware Fighter - Major Dilemma Staff Member

    roflmao tactical ..I like it
     
  50. Speculant

    Speculant The Confused One

    hmmm....im getting kind of a negative vibe from some of the newest posts/threads in the lounge area...

    "Could this be my last post?"
    "I hate my life"
    "I'm lost"
    "Short rant"
    "Why do I do it?"
    "Why we're at the bottom"

    hopefully things will look better in the morning
     

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