Loving the world

My wife passed over on 3/12 and my mind is racing. Computer not working correctly, so I came to majorgeeks as I have in the past just as I do what is right because I don't know what else to do. I cannot thank you all enough.

 

I am sorry to hear of your loss and hope you are beginning to recover.
If you just need to talk or even rant there are plenty of members who are willing to listen and pass on a little advice or sympathy.

 

Sorry to hear of your loss gatorman.
As bill said if you want to talk, there are many good folks here willing to listen.

 

My sincerest sympathy goes out to you gatorman, can not imagine what your going through. Hope you find strength in the camaraderie here.

 

I am truly sorry to hear of your loss Gatorman. Like Bill and Wildwolf said, if you ever need to talk, or just vent, we'll be here for you. Again, my deepest sympathies, and just hang in there, my friend!

 

Deepest sympathies on your loss, gatorman. I imagine it's difficult, but I hope you are bearing up. You are in good hands here.

 

Sorry for you're lost and it saddens me to hear that. We think we know what it will be like when something happens, but its just not 100% until it happens. Anyways this place can be friends and we can talk and heal and help if needed.

 

Very sorry for your loss Gatorman. Sending a couple of good thoughts towards you now. Hang around, it is an interesting group of people here.

 

I am so sorry for your loss. Sending my thoughts to you and your family. Take care and know you have people here who are thinking about you at this time.

 

It is astounding how nice you have been in this time. I knew this one place that keeps us strong would reach out. I now wish I was as savvy as you all are so that I could share in the great work that you are doing here. Once again I cannot thank you engough for being here.
Love,
Gatorman

 

How you bearing up, gatorman? Hoping to hear from you soon.

 

Thank you Joey and I wish I could send this to all of the people that responded to me because I was in such terror that night. Coming home and making her dinner she said I have a head ache and I said lay down I will bring you your dish but when I did it was resuscitation, CPR, 911, and then hospital. It was a pulmonary embolism because she had been housebound and the shame is she was only 54. I would hope that all my friends here help me learn because she was so much smarter at computers than I am but depression and physical ailments took her down from a very good position to being home bound. I am dedicating myself to trying to be as computer literate as herself and helping people with depression. Bless You.

 

Hello again, gatorman.
That was a heart breaking story to hear. I am so sorry your wife passed at such a relatively young age and so suddenly, too. Such a shame. There are some very understanding, kind and patient people at this site, so just talk away, man.
I'm sure you'll be more proficient in computing sooner than you think. Just before I started visiting MGs I sat at the computer and had to ask my son and his friend how to 'work it!' lol. Now, after going through old(ish) threads on the support forums, I am slowly starting to understand how the thing works. So, you aren't alone in wanting to learn further. Best wishes for the future and good luck in the geeking.
Visiting the off topic section is always a great way to spend a spare couple of hours, too. Call in regularly and give it large.

 

So sorry to hear of you tragic loss, Gatorman. This site is one of the best places to receive, not only computer help second to none, but a level of friendship, compassion, and at times, good humour that few sites can match.

Take care, and best wishes to you in these difficult times.

 

So sorry to hear of your loss, gatorman. I can't imagine what you are going through. We can probably take care of your computer needs, but here is a forum designed for those who have lost spouses. You might find some support and comfort there as well. I'm sure that they can help with questions you might have.

http://hovforum.ipbhost.com/index.php?showforum=4

We'll keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

 

Thanks I do believe I will visit the forum.

 

Sorry to hear of your loss, gatorman. An unexpected onset like that is tough - no time to mentally prepare yourself. A couple weeks in, you're probably still in the process of fully digesting the event. Stay strong, and seek counsel. or just company, if you feel the need. I wish i could give you more than just words, but that's all computers are capable of just now. Focusing on your interests, like learning more about the computer will help. So will getting out a bit, even if just to walk and appreciate the beauty of the sky and trees.

"There is no cure for birth and death save to enjoy
the interval."
-George Santayana

 

So very sorry for your loss. Been there. Believe it or not, you will be able to take a deep breath and smile again. For now, glad you're reaching out to others and wish for you the comfort that friendships can offer.

 

Thank you. Frapper gave me an excellent site to go to and you and everyone else tells me the world is going to be right.

 

Thank you and I hope that Darlene is holding up in her time.

 

I'll pray for you, gatorman. Hang in there!