Why are women always so catty towards young girls?

Answer this seriously please. Why are women always so catty and nasty towards young girls? Why do we get the nasty glares and snippy comments when we're out laughing and having fun. Women always seem to be especially catty when girls seems to be happy and enjoying life. Is it because women hate to be reminded of their own carefree youth, their fading beauty and the wonderful feeling of being in love for the first time? Why are women this way? I don't think men are this way, which is why I like them more.

 

Well, I see someone didn't go to school today...rolleyes I would like to know, what ever gave you that idea?

I have never seen any of that myself. So, maybe you can elaborate on what you mean by catty? Is there someone treating you that way?

As far as your second part goes,

aren't you a LITTLE YOUNG to be discussing such things??? I don't see anything "Computer-related" in your post... rolleyes

To honest with you, I have never treated anyone that way......

 

Men aren't like that, eh.

Well, true.

We are just sitting back and watching you pick fights, and in general, dig yourself into a hole thats becoming increasingly difficult for you to crawl out of.

 

The only time I shoot a nasty look at "young girls" is when their having fun is so loud and obnoxious that it interferes with MY having fun. But that has nothing whatsoever to do with gender or age...I am an equal-opportunity dirty-look-giver. :-D

 

I would say it is likely because of 'Competition' of sorts, domination sort of thing, I know exactly what you are talking about, I`m male and have noticed it, but it's very hard to describe.

My mother for instance brought this same subject up just the other day, my parents don't have a car, and my mum does all the running around via public transport (aka bus) and usually gets on and off during the school runs, and see's this all the time.

Men are more polite, but most of the time it is taken as "he likes her" instead of the actual case of just being polite.

My partner is EXACTLY the same, she is really rude when it comes to young teenage women these days, you know what I mean, the smug comments like, "If those shorts were any higher, you`d see what she had for breakfast", etc and I just think to myself that it's jealousy, that's the way it comes across. but I DO NOT tell her that, I just say 'Yes Dear'! :-D:-o:cry

In casurina it is ripe with this, you see a mother walk past a young girl and she gets the filthiest look! (The poor girl that is), all because either what she is wearing, or just because she is younger and their at the time!

It's a bit like the pot calling the kettle black! but if the tables were turned and it happened the other way around, it would end up the same thing anyway! I don't know why a lot of women here atleast are like this, its really un-necessary.

 

Yeah, Sgt. Tibbs hates EVERYONE evenly! -D:drool

/me, runs!!! Zoooooooooooooooooom :major

 

Honestly, I don't think you could handle the serious answers that your comments displaying obvious negativity toward womens will generate.

But I'll honestly answer your question before I end up having to close this thread and delete posts.....

You my dear are the one with the problem. You either have issues with female authority figures or women in general because you crave being the center of attention. This has been obvious since your first post here. I find it really sad that something has gone so wrong in your life that you feel portraying yourself in a sexual way to attract the attention of men seems to be what you think is the way to go.

We're not. What we are is concerned over inappropriate behavior that attracts the wrong kind of attention.

You're delusional? Females in general are disapproving of young girls who wear to much makeup, wear clothes that are far to revealing and are obviously looking for attention in all the wrong places/ways. We've grown up and matured...seen more of life so know and/or have experienced the repercussions of the way you are (mis)behaving.

Carefree youth? I think not! LOL I, and I would bet on this....most women would not want to go back to being your age unless they could go with the knowledge they have gained through maturity. And what!?!?! Fading beauty? What's that? Women in general embrace the changes they go through. True beauty comes from the heart,, growing up, living life. Ask any mature man and he will tell you the same. The outside package has little meaning except to those that haven't actually grown up and really lived.

Boy...you really do have much to learn. I just pray you don't learn it the hard way because you certainly are heading in that direction.

Don't you have a school counselor you can talk to? Your mother? An aunt or grandmother? There must be someone you can reach out to for the help you obviously need.

 

AbbySue just answered it from another perspective! Which actually might sound a bit brutal, but she has a clear point! and she is a WOMEN!

I never thought of it that way much, although that is some of these womens reasoning. But my old neighbor had 2 daughters, she would never have let anyone say or give a dirty look or comment, but when her daughters weren't around and she went shopping, she would be making comments galore about other peoples kids, but god help you if you said a word about her kids! funny thing was, everything she picked on about 'Other' girls, related to her daughters, the only thing is her kids dare not act or dress like it around her, but when she wasn't around, look out!

 

You think this way and you will be used and abused, I missed this part of your post!

Pedophiles will endure to use this against you! Some men are only kind to the opposite & in particular younger sex because they know how to play on your emotions, likes and dislikes! I say pedophile because if the male is over 18 and gets on with a sub 18 year old female, in my eye's that's a pedophile!

Darwin is ripe with them, my neighbor is one, his in his early 30's!!!!! AbbeySue is spot on, you need to talk with someone and get that sort of logic completely out of your head! It will ruin you! And won;t end in happiness, that's for sure!!

 

I don't use makeup and I'm very carefull to make sure that the clothes I wear are appropriate and reflect my high morals and Catholic values!

(bikini's are made in kids sizes for a reason)

 

Hope for your sake that you take these responses to heart.Everyone of them is being truthful only because they care for your well-being.

 

My well-being is fine.

 

We can't tell or know if something is going right or wrong in your life. From what I've seen and by a comment I checked your other thread about the picture posting online(how your dad said it was okay to post a picture of you in a bikini on the internet!) and you are 14 or whatever age! And you also talk about how not to quote but like men for this and that and may have something towards older men. But IMO I hope you are alright and nothing(really is going on behind lock doors) and I find it serious about this... and the sickos that go towards those younger girls and the girls go to the men for whatever reasons.. and either do something wrong or they can be rapped or worst off! I suggest if anything is wrong talk to someone (police) or school or something.. if someone is affraid of family relatives or father or mother dont go to them for help go somewhere else like police or schools. Internet is not a place to post your online information or pictures or a dating place.. I've seen in real life people I know do it and even meet and date and etc. I personally think internet is nothing to mess around with.. I use to go to chat room and etc when I was very little. I found guys PM me(I am a guy boy at the time) saying hey send me picuteres you want to meet? wtf! Eventually you got to stop before you get hurt. Internet is full of sickos.. like I tell people I dont use myspace.. or facebook I never have most people talk about BS on it about others.. or try to date or get your info and they use it.. My family member had her myspace and dating site account taken by someone we don't know and obviously she had all family photos... (personal photos) and more and now its in this persons hands! I lucky got myspace to delete the account 2 yrs later.. anyways Use the internet for knowledge learning and go to school learn computers or something...

 

I happy you info me! Internet no scare me... I have many big guns!

 

If it doesn't scare you, it certainly should. From the sounds of your posts, you haven't read any of the responses here.. Go to school, and learn, little lady, and get the proper education. You are definitely heading down the wrong road.

 

What makes you say that?

 

Well, it is obvious, you cannot follow the rules.

 

hrmmm..I was raised a Catholic and attended Catholic school. I think YOU need to rethink your morals and values. A young girl wanting to post provocative pictures of herself does not fit in the category of meek and modest per Catholicism.

It is obvious you are not comprehending the overall concern and solid advice being given you. We have been trying to steer you in the right & proper direction for your own safety but all you are doing is seeking attention and wasting our time with your flippant responses. You are in your own little world where the good fairy reins and the evil fairy never enters. Definitely NOT reality.

And on that note, this thread is closed....which is getting to be the norm for you already! Interesting..