Confidence

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by cybersurfer, Sep 10, 2006.

  1. cybersurfer

    cybersurfer Private E-2

    hi

    i want to imrpove my confidence . plzz give me sum sites that r free.
     
  2. Solange

    Solange Sergeant Major

    Confidence in what? :confused:

    Life in general? No suggestions there, trial and error works for me.

    Computers? then you are already in the right place :D
     
  3. G.T.

    G.T. R.I.P February 4, 2007. You will be missed.

    Confidence comes from succeeding. Succeeding comes from trying and working at something 'til you succeed. Frequently involves study, trial and error, and failure. Overcoming failure is part of the game. Other than websites that can help you learn what you need to conquer the current obstacle, I don't think any websites will help with confidence in general.

    What exactly are you trying to build confidence IN?
     
  4. Lev

    Lev MajorGeek

    General confidence?

    Learn to like and love yourself for who you are....for your strengths and weaknesses - embrace and recognize them both. When you are comfortable with who and what you are, you will gain confidence in being that person. Confidence comes from within, and not from what others think or perceive you as :)
     
  5. Rikky

    Rikky Wile E. Coyote - One of a kind

    My take,Dont give a crap about what people think!Forget about improving yourself to become confident in your appearance ect. Just accept fact like I have done that you aint shit as are most of the people who look on and judge you

    Once you stop seeking the adoration and acceptance of others you are free :)
     
  6. Toni_1947

    Toni_1947 Command Sergeant Major

    Amen, Rikki!
    I'm 59 years old. People tell me I should wear make-up. When I ask "Why?", they say ,"You'd look 10 years younger!"
    I shake my head and tell them: "I'm proud of my age. I like my face without make-up. If YOU don't...then don't look at me!"
    My hair is long and straight, parted down the middle. People say,"You should cut your hair and get it styled." When I ask ,"Why?", they say,"You'd look so much nicer and younger too!"
    I shake my head and tell them: "I like my hair long and down. If YOU don't...don't look at it!"
    I know what I know and I do what I do as well as I am able to do it.
    If there is something I want to do but don't know how to do, I LEARN how and DO IT!
    ;)
     
  7. cybersurfer

    cybersurfer Private E-2

    hi

    confidence in general

    talking to stranger and talking to ppl in collage


    basically in general
     
  8. fleppen

    fleppen Gumshoe

    Try lessons in Communication or Negotiation if you want to learn how to talk to people.
    It might also work to see the positive side of things instead of the negative one (which you probably do unconsciously).
    Focus on your thoughts, what they are exactly and whether or not they're going to help you in your situation, then replace the thought with a more positive one.
    There, psychological advice for free :p
     

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