need help with my laptop

Man, this one will be tough, fair warning. Lets start here:

Try system restore to before the problem started.
Try a repair which should be an option when it boots.

These 2 can restore you to before the problem or repair anything Windows finds wrong.

I have other ideas but I want to focus on the safe mode problem first and foremost. Anything else would be confusing.

 

Bad hard drive sectors is on my list. I would backup your important files now because I suspect we are going to find a hardware problem at some point.

Open Computer by clicking the Start button Picture of the Start button, and then clicking Computer.

Right-click the hard disk drive that you want to check, and then click Properties.

Click the Tools tab, and then, under Error-checking, click Check Now. Administrator permission required If you are prompted for an administrator password or confirmation, type the password or provide confirmation.

To automatically repair problems with files and folders that the scan detects, select Automatically fix file system errors. Otherwise, the disk check will simply report problems but not fix them.

To perform a thorough disk check, select Scan for and attempt recovery of bad sectors. This scan attempts to find and repair physical errors on the hard disk itself, and it can take much longer to complete.

To check for both file errors and physical errors, select both Automatically fix file system errors and Scan for and attempt recovery of bad sectors.

Click Start.

 

Glad to hear it.

Popups make me assume some crappy programs installed. This is the time to scan for malware.

http://www.majorgeeks.com/IObit_Malware_Fighter_d6088.html
or
http://www.majorgeeks.com/Malwarebytes_Anti-Malware_d5756.html

Here is my maintenance guide i just updated. Good bookmark for you:

http://www.majorgeeks.com/page.php?id=39