really need help asap

hi

i hooked up my moniter to my hudge 2 meater flat screen tv but when i took my computer back to my room i could on see one screen and it wasnt the primary, i took it back down and uninstalled the drivers so it would work on the first deful moniter it would come up with, and man did that screw things up now whenever i get into windows my screen gose black and cant see a thing. ive tried booting in safe mode, dosnt work it crashes while booting into it , i ausme because it cant find a display driver. ive tried putting my windows xp cd in and doing a system recovery but i need a flopy disk labbled " Windows Xp Recovery" so screwed there too, my only option is to format but then i will have to loose ALL my files and i got some important documents, diary enteries movies school work etc etc. so waht to do guys think i should do? can somone send me the files for the system recovery thingy so i can fix it?

and also i tried backing up my stuff onto my mums computer by putting my hard drive in there, it so happens i screwed hers to, after i found it didnt work i fixed all the cables back to how they were, but when it boots up IT CANT FIND ANY HARDRIVES :| and she spent all this arvo doing work for work and she needs me to email it to her TOMORRO ASAP and i dont know what the heck i should do, she dosnt know ive screwed her comp but if she gose into work tomoro and finds it not in her inbox then man ima gonna feel so guility and when she gets home well she will do even more of a guilt trip so if you have ANY suggestions or you have the files then please reply or email me the files at jford04@bigpond.net.au

thanks heaps for reading hope you guys can help
cya