Windows loading bar freezes up

Its hard to know where to begin -

Last week I transferred my whole boot drive to another drive, after that Norton and some other programs were screwed up, a lot malware and stuff got in, tried to clean and make norton work norton never got working before some bad sound and a complete windows crash. I had to do a compete install, now whenever I restart it freezes at windows loading bar, then I repair windows with my retail xp disc and everythings fine until I restart again, and it freezes up again, I thought it was malware so I did this "READ & RUN ME FIRST Before Asking for Support " post here and thought it fixed it because I could restart 3 or four times in a row but then it froze up on me again.

Here is what I have tried,
used alot of virus and spy stuff and cleaned everything,
flashed bios,
completely reintalled windows and erased boot hardrive, not erased second drive twice
unplugging second hardive , and booting up
updated drivers such as sound card,
repaired windows more than 15 times

safe mode works fine both regular and with networking.

I have a custom computer with 2 sata hardrives. using a gigabyte mobo and san diego chip. System worked perfectly prior to the transfer of two old ide drives.

 

so its probably a hardware problem since I did a clean install of windows, and cleaned up all malware on my spare drive, and even unplugged the spare and tried to boot the boot drive alone.

I have run drive tests that came out ok, so I dont think its the hard drive, plus I have never had a seagate go bad.

I have disabled the audio from cmos, and it still freezes. audio is in the mobo

run diagnostics test on everything I have from norton utility and everything comes up fine.

I have updated my bios from gigabyte website

Does being able to use safe mode with networking tell anything?

All hardware was working great until I trasferred my two ide drives to two sata drives.

Have not switched out the video card because I dont have another.

Could it be a software issue?

And a full windows repair why does it work great, then freeze up on the first or second restart?

I feel I am pretty good with computers but I cant find the answer here.

I use this computer for work as I am a designer so this is really hurting me.