Windows Media Player in Flash projector

I'm trying to use the Windows media player (WMP) as part of a Flash presentation using the Flash projector. I use a Dell laptop and a Dell projector to throw the presentation on a screen. When I launch the video via the WMP, I have to <fn> <F8> for it to show and then it fills the screen on the wall, hiding everything else in the Flash frame. Hitting the function key and F8 again reduces the player and video to the size I want, but it's a very idiotic process that ruins the effects.

I planned on using the WMP with the "Always on top" option rather than imbed or link the content. Does anyone know how I can confine the size of the video permanently?