honey moon

ACE and I will be going on our honey moon soon and I want to do something special for him while we are gone but I can't think of anything. I need ideas...can someone help me?

 

TimW
MajorGeeks Administrator - Malware Expert, DOM

 

Oh gawd. lol

I really can't respond to that, without a song by MC BanHammer. "Cant Post This" (da-na-na-na)

 

I have to disagree here, primarily because my experience is the opposite of yours. What's special to a woman is lost on most men because they don't think it is as special... very few husbands pay enough attention to your fingernails to notice that expensive manicure, and even if he did, he probably doesn't care that much. Men just don't think the same things are "special" as most women do.

For example, most women who have an office job loves it when their man has flowers delivered to their workplace with a sweet card attached to it for an anniversary. Most men wouldn't enjoy that at all. Try having a Pizza Hut special sent to him at work instead, he'll appreciate that a lot more! Or sneak his favorite adult beverage into the fridge so he finds it there when he gets home from work on Friday night, after a very long and stressful work week. Cook his favorite food without being asked.

The Guy and I have (unintentionally) made a weekend ritual of his breakfast. It started one weekend when he'd had a really rough work week and I wanted to cheer him up. I snuck out of bed before he woke up, and made breakfast for him, bacon and scrambled eggs with lots of cheese. The weekend after he asked me if I'd please make bacon and eggs again? So I did, because he asked nicely, and it seemed to make him really happy.

So now we have a weekend ritual where I sleep in as long as I want to every Saturday and Sunday morning, and when I wake up, the first thing I do is cook bacon and scramble eggs. And then I make myself coffee and toast, since I don't care much for scrambled eggs at all. I don't think this is special at all, since it's not exactly exhausting and difficult to scramble eggs, but The Guy loves it, and has developed a habit of bringing it up whenever his guy friends start to complain about whatever in their relationships they're unhappy with. He says he likes the glares of bitter jealously it gets him. LOL

 

naw....ACE 256 is a very sensitive person when I said the word "special" I didn't mean sexually I meant romantically......usually what a woman would think of as romantic so would he..how ever I needed help because I don't think like a girl....I think like a guy most the time so I NEED HELP

 

Hello Mrs. Ace, the sensitive types are nice! After 34+ years to my sensitive hubby, I would suggest, is play it by ear, and just go with the flow. Let nature take it's course, and sometimes the best times, are not planned. Maybe a romantic dinner out while on your Honeymoon, with candles.

 

Exactly! Primarily because it shows that you care enough to pay close attention to the person, and do something that you think they would enjoy, rather than taking the stupid and cliche "roses and chocolate" approach.

See my comment to Laura. You know him better than we do. You know what he likes, and what would make him really, really happy, and what would best send the message you want to send. Just identify what that would be, and do it.

Oh, and maybe not ask for advice on a forum he visits often?

This thread has reminded me that I have been promising The Guy butter-herb baked rainbow trout for a few days, without delivering on it. Shame on me! Excuse me for an hour or so.

 

to Mimsy

Your avatar shows why your other half hasn't gotten his trout yet. (yum-yum. slurp, burp)





(quietly and quickly sliding for the door.)

 

He's eating it as we speak. While humming to himself. :-D

 

Him humming, you purring.

 

Any man with a wife with this sentiment has already got everything he could possibly want!!!:wave:wave

Want to share where you are going?:wave:wave

 

Easy. Invite five of his best mates along.


JOKING!!!


Anything from time on a secluded beach (with you) to a helicopter ride. Depends on what he's like and what he likes. I would suggest you make sure you get it right though - ask around, drop hints, etc. Nothing worse than him having to pretend he likes it, and neither of you having a good time...
Well, maybe some things are worse...

 

we are gong to be staying in a friends house while they are gone for the weekend a big 3 story on the top of a hill with a marvelous view

 

Sounds good, as long as the honeymoon doesn't become honey mooning you.:-D

A good kick should cure that, though.

 

Or a bit of capsicum spray!!! :-D

 

Is there a deck or patio? Nice weather?

How 'bout a surprise outdoor breakfast, juice, champagne, fruit, eggs, bagels, etc., the works? Turn it into a morning feast in the rising sun. Sure to be remembered! :wave:wave

 

I think you're both right, bacon,eggs and cheese.....served in a lacy thingamy :-D
Wait, not the food in a lacy thingamy, just so we're clear on that lol

Hmmm, may have to have words with teh wife, could be good breakfast tomorrow :-D

@Mrs.Ace... Unless you can come up with something he is really interested in, like a hobby or something that he has wanted for ages, the old saying is correct, the best way to a mans heart is through his stomach

 

Now THERE'S somewhere you'll need luck!! rolleyes
(Sorry - in joke from another thread. :-o)

 

Technically, it's through his back, in between the fourth and fifth rib on the left side.

Or through the local grocer's deli section and butcher block, followed by a detour through your fridge, past your oven and stove, with a pit stop somewhere on the way to obtain adult beverages that mix well with the upcoming meal.

 

Take along a desktop CPU that needs repair. The thought that you brought this will warm his heart!

:drool








tongue in cheek of course MrsACE!

 

Well joking or not your right that is something that he would like....He likes teaching me things about computers and loves that i like learning about it though i think he would have more fun with a broken laptop that needs lots of soldering......not sure though you would have to ask him im sure he would post on here eventually

 

And when is the honeymoon and I assume after all of the advice you received from everybody here you will post back with a honeymoon report? :-D:wave

 

all this talk....bah...

Just get some baby oil, and a 9 iron and get creative.

 

well i dont know what you mean there

 

I think it's a game. You pour the baby oil all over the nine iron and then see who can hit the ball the farthest without losing the club!! It's a Texas favorite! :-D:-D:-D

 

No, just a bit kinky.

 

Don't fart arse about Halo. You know exactly what I'm talking about. Those items are part of the official "Tiger Woods Roleplay Sex Kit"

 

well this discussion just got a little weird

 

Lighten up a bit. Just kidding is all.

You may now resume your normal thread programming. :cool

 

i see....no offense motc7 i mean i understand kinky to the fullest but that is just a little odd at any rate...........banana

 

Well, this may sound a bit simple, but a nice picnic in a secluded, but restful area of the woods is pretty hard to beat, i.m.o. Hope you both have a great Honeymoon, whatever you decide.:cool

 

i have had a few thoughts on what to do....and btw "bananas" was just a random comment that ace had said when he was reading over my shoulder... i have thought of maybe making a really nice dinner and eating it outside on the veranda at sunset. i thought it would be nice to see all the nice colors of a sunset...then i nice hot shower together (i love washing his hair) then a movie with popcorn and snuggles......

 

I overheard my wife once talking with a friend about something along these lines - she told her friend that the most impressed she ever made me was when we were dating she showed up at my house in her birthday suit, with beer.


She meant it as a joke . . . but yes, I was very, very impressed when it happened . . . :-D

We men are really simple creatures . . .

 

So out of this thread I got fruits, computer, middle of no where, nighttime, birthday suits. :confused

 

yes well there has been alot going on in this thread....any day now ace is problly just going to make a very random very off topic comment..........not sure what it would say if he ever actually leaves a comment

 

nope no comment :-D

 

but in saying that you have no comment you have indeed left a comment so YOU LOOSE

 

no comment

 

your not nice Mr. ACE

 

:kissmy:rasberry

 

you are a pain